Honeymoons are often thought of as the perfect way for newlyweds to celebrate their love. A dreamy trip, far away from everything, marks the start of a new chapter together. 

But have you ever wondered how this tradition began? You might be surprised to learn that honeymoons weren’t always about romance.

The strange origins of honeymoons

In the past, the idea of a honeymoon was very different—and even a bit shocking. Long ago, in some parts of Europe, the “honeymoon” wasn’t about a couple escaping to a romantic destination. Instead, it involved something known as bride kidnapping.

Yes, you read that right. In those days, the groom and his friends would take the bride from her family, often without her consent. After the “kidnapping,” the couple would hide for about a month. Why a month? Because that was long enough for the bride’s family to either stop searching or accept the marriage.

During this time, the couple would drink a special drink made from fermented honey, called mead. Mead was thought to bring good luck, strength, and even help with fertility. This is where the word “honeymoon” comes from—“honey” for the drink and “moon” for the month they stayed hidden.

The shift to romance

Thankfully, over time, the idea of a honeymoon changed. By the 19th century, especially in England, honeymoons became more elegant and romantic. Wealthy couples started taking what they called “bridal tours.” Instead of hiding, they traveled to visit friends and family who couldn’t attend the wedding.

These trips weren’t just practical—they were also enjoyable. Couples would travel together, sometimes visiting beautiful places like the countryside or even other countries. Eventually, these bridal tours became less about visiting relatives and more about celebrating love.

The modern honeymoon

In the 20th century, the honeymoon became what we know today—a special vacation for newlyweds. As travel became easier, couples started exploring faraway destinations. Beach resorts, luxury hotels, and air travel made honeymoons more exciting and accessible.

Today, couples have endless choices for their honeymoon. Some prefer adventurous trips like safaris or mountain treks, while others love quiet getaways to tropical islands. Honeymoons have become a big part of wedding culture, with couples often saving up just to make their trip unforgettable.

Are Honeymoons Necessary?

Not everyone agrees on the importance of a honeymoon. Some couples see it as an essential part of their wedding journey, while others skip it for personal or financial reasons. 

There’s also the option of a “mini-moon,” which is a shorter and more affordable trip. No matter how it’s done, the meaning of a honeymoon has evolved. What started as a strange and even uncomfortable tradition is now a beautiful way to celebrate love.

For most couples, it’s not about tradition anymore—it’s about starting their married life with happiness, adventure, or just some well-earned rest.

 

So, the next time you think about honeymoons, remember their unusual history. From bride kidnappings to romantic getaways, this tradition has come a long way!